History and Impact of My Brother’s House
Founding and Growth
My Brother’s House was founded in 2012 by Terry, who, after nearly four years of sobriety, recognized the need for a local sober living environment in Gainesville. With support from his sponsor and community members, Terry and David Bowles opened the first house on Scott Street. The program quickly gained a positive reputation, filling it to capacity within a year and earning the trust of neighbors and local organizations.
Program Structure and Philosophy
The program is built on core principles that have remained unchanged since its inception:
- Establishing a spiritual foundation through the twelve-step program and sponsorship.
- Fostering employment and career development, including resume building and interview preparation.
- Promoting financial responsibility, such as saving for post-program expenses and resolving debts.
- Addressing legal, health, and mental health needs to support holistic recovery.
Unlike traditional treatment centers, My Brother’s House allows residents to maintain employment, fulfill responsibilities, and visit family, supporting a smoother transition to independent living. Residents are required to complete all twelve steps of AA or NA, ensuring they gain comprehensive recovery tools and personal accountability.
Expansion and Community Integration
In 2015, the program relocated to a larger facility in Muenster, expanding capacity to 38 residents. The new location provided enhanced amenities and opportunities for residents to contribute to renovations, fostering a sense of ownership and community. The board’s commitment and the support of former residents and local partners have been instrumental in the program’s sustainability.
Leadership and Legacy
After 12 years, Terry transitioned leadership to Curt Stovall, a former resident who experienced the program’s transformative impact firsthand. Under Curt’s direction, the program continues to be led by individuals with lived experience in recovery, ensuring empathy and authenticity in its approach.
Demonstrated Impact
- The program’s reputation has led to ongoing referrals from the justice system, families, and agencies, with minimal need for advertising.
- Residents often arrive in crisis, but through structured support, many regain self-respect, secure employment, and rebuild family relationships.
- Alumni frequently return to share their success stories, highlighting the long-term effectiveness of the program’s principles.
- The first annual alumni dinner in April 2025 showcased graduates from as early as 2012, many of whom credited My Brother’s House with their sustained sobriety and personal growth.
- A 2025 resident survey identified relationships, employment, and family as the top motivators for joining and remaining in the program, underscoring its relevance to real-life challenges.
Ongoing Commitment and Future Plans
Staff and board members, many of whom are in recovery themselves, remain dedicated to supporting men through setbacks and successes. Because recovery is a journey, not all who come to My Brother’s House stay to complete the program or may find themselves in need of a second chance. Our open-door policy offers another opportunity for them.